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Post by skysmum on Sept 8, 2013 15:25:31 GMT
My little girl Fern was very poorly this morning so i made the heartbreaking decision to end her suffering and have just taken her to be pts. It doesn't matter how many times you tell yourself you are doing the right thing i still feel awful . My vet Ben was lovely, thankyou Ben. I have buried her in the garden next to her mum, dad and little sister. Fly high sweet girl.
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Post by OP on Sept 8, 2013 15:37:25 GMT
Aww! My heart goes out to you. I'm really sorry you had to this and lose your little girl. You would feel even more awful if you had let her suffer.
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Post by budgiefriend on Sept 8, 2013 16:28:50 GMT
Rest in Peace, sweet beautiful Fern. Keep her cute face and happy song close to your heart, and she will be with you forever. The toughest decisions are made with the most love. Fern is with her mom, dad and sister, talking about the good times they had with you and your family. Hugs to you all.
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Post by skysmum on Sept 8, 2013 16:30:04 GMT
Thankyou OP, we had a lovely day together yesterday and one that i will treasure. She had the consevatory to herself and lots of treats. tinypic.com/r/b7xkja/5And she sat on my shoulder for almost an hour and we put the world to right. tinypic.com/r/3444mxu/5
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Post by ffiscool on Sept 8, 2013 17:03:39 GMT
So sorry. It was a brave and hard thing to do. Fern is no longer suffering, which is a nice thought. She will indeed be chatting up there with her family x
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Post by sweetpea on Sept 8, 2013 17:27:15 GMT
I am so sorry to hear this. Heart-breaking. Fly high little Fern. I imagine her mum, dad & sister are showing her all the delights of rainbow bridge & the fields of millet.
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Post by birdguhl on Sept 8, 2013 18:04:10 GMT
Skysmum, I am so sorry. You've had so little time to get to grips with the situation and now you've had to do that really hard but right thing. Sending you hugs. You must be feeling rotten.
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Post by starrymist on Sept 8, 2013 18:14:39 GMT
I'm sorry to hear that, thinking of you x
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Post by skysmum on Sept 8, 2013 19:09:58 GMT
Thankyou all for your kind words. Yes birdguhl its been an emotional 4 days and i wasn't prepared for how i found her this morning . I feel emotionally exhausted, i don't drink but im going to raise a glass to her and have an early night. Thankfully Teddy is well at the moment.
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Post by Hezz on Sept 9, 2013 0:23:51 GMT
Oh, Skysmum, I am so terribly sorry. I've got tears rolling down my cheeks, for you and Fern. You barely had time to come to grips with her diagnosis, but I am sure you have done the right thing for the little sweety. Hugs xxxx Rest in Peace, Fern. Fly high sweetheart. xx
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Post by marleen4 on Sept 9, 2013 6:26:06 GMT
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Post by Nicola on Sept 9, 2013 6:49:08 GMT
So sorry Skysmum! This is absolutely heartbreaking! She was and still is a very gorgeous girl and was very loved, not only by her family, but by all the forumers and their buds. Rest In Peace sweet Fern xx Our hearts are with you xx
Nicola
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Post by skysmum on Sept 9, 2013 14:23:21 GMT
Thankyou so much everyone for your kind words, and lovely pics of beautiful Ferns Marleen. I have found myself welling up a few times today, its the guilt at having to make the decision to end her suffering that's the worst, i even spotted OH welling up on the trip home from the vets, he's not as hard as he makes out. Its so lovely to have this place to share our ups and downs and to know that everyone knows just how you are feeling.
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Post by samwiseg on Sept 9, 2013 15:48:30 GMT
Oh am so sorry poor little Fern - and poor you! Please please please dont feel guilty, its never an easy decision to make but you didn't let her suffer which I have no doubt she is grateful to you for. RIP sweet Fern, you are loved by all x
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Post by skysmum on Sept 9, 2013 16:00:26 GMT
Thankyou sam.
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