Post by kablegirl on Jan 8, 2015 4:56:16 GMT
Hi All,
Thank you so much for all the helpful information on this forum. I am a relatively new budgie owner and appreciate your input. I have a bit of a long story, so please bear with me.
I bought a budgie from Petco in October. I was told she was a he and only after reading this forum did I realize I had a female bird. She was very quiet, although she did warm up to me right before Thanksgiving, even following me around the house and chirping loudly when I left the room. I had no problem getting her up onto my hand once she was out of the cage. Then suddenly (literally overnight) she decided she was afraid of me and stopped being so friendly. I was sad about this but kept trying. However I started to worry when day after day she just sat in her cage not making any sounds or moving much despite attention, music, other budgie noises from YouTube. I thought that maybe because I was away all day at work she was lonely and depressed.
So after about three weeks of depressed Betty, I broke down and bought another budgie, Tommy, in mid December. I am pretty sure he is a boy. He was very outgoing at the store (I was hoping to get a more "brave," talkative friend for Betty). I keep them in separate cages and mostly separate rooms, although they immediately started "talking" to each other. Betty is even less tame than before now that she has a friend, but she did get more active and talkative. I am continuing to work with Betty and she is a bit more tame but nothing like she was at first.
I have been following all the taming instructions with Tommy but he is actually much more skittish than Betty and one day escaped from his cage as I went to adjust a perch. I had to leave and did not want him to run into windows or anything harmful so I had to chase him with a kitchen towel and catch him to get him back in the cage. Then poor guy had another incident where my parents were moving his cage and it fell and broke open, so we had to catch him again. Of course now he is terrified of my hand and I am working hard with him every day to build trust, but he's very wary.
Betty is pretty good when Tommy is in another room or quiet, but as soon as he chirps she "reverts" back to being super untame. So now I have two lonely (I don't want to put them together until I can be sure both are able to get back into cages after being let out), untamed birds that pine for each other from opposite sides of my house.
Do I have any hope whatsoever of taming these birds and making them my friends? If so, can you provide any advice on how I might do it? What should I do to recover from a "catching" incident? Give the bird space for a week or two? Or should I just bite the bullet and let them bond with each other?
Thanks so much for slogging through this post and for any advice you can give. I really want to be a good budgie owner but it seems I keep doing the wrong things!
Thank you so much for all the helpful information on this forum. I am a relatively new budgie owner and appreciate your input. I have a bit of a long story, so please bear with me.
I bought a budgie from Petco in October. I was told she was a he and only after reading this forum did I realize I had a female bird. She was very quiet, although she did warm up to me right before Thanksgiving, even following me around the house and chirping loudly when I left the room. I had no problem getting her up onto my hand once she was out of the cage. Then suddenly (literally overnight) she decided she was afraid of me and stopped being so friendly. I was sad about this but kept trying. However I started to worry when day after day she just sat in her cage not making any sounds or moving much despite attention, music, other budgie noises from YouTube. I thought that maybe because I was away all day at work she was lonely and depressed.
So after about three weeks of depressed Betty, I broke down and bought another budgie, Tommy, in mid December. I am pretty sure he is a boy. He was very outgoing at the store (I was hoping to get a more "brave," talkative friend for Betty). I keep them in separate cages and mostly separate rooms, although they immediately started "talking" to each other. Betty is even less tame than before now that she has a friend, but she did get more active and talkative. I am continuing to work with Betty and she is a bit more tame but nothing like she was at first.
I have been following all the taming instructions with Tommy but he is actually much more skittish than Betty and one day escaped from his cage as I went to adjust a perch. I had to leave and did not want him to run into windows or anything harmful so I had to chase him with a kitchen towel and catch him to get him back in the cage. Then poor guy had another incident where my parents were moving his cage and it fell and broke open, so we had to catch him again. Of course now he is terrified of my hand and I am working hard with him every day to build trust, but he's very wary.
Betty is pretty good when Tommy is in another room or quiet, but as soon as he chirps she "reverts" back to being super untame. So now I have two lonely (I don't want to put them together until I can be sure both are able to get back into cages after being let out), untamed birds that pine for each other from opposite sides of my house.
Do I have any hope whatsoever of taming these birds and making them my friends? If so, can you provide any advice on how I might do it? What should I do to recover from a "catching" incident? Give the bird space for a week or two? Or should I just bite the bullet and let them bond with each other?
Thanks so much for slogging through this post and for any advice you can give. I really want to be a good budgie owner but it seems I keep doing the wrong things!